I am very new to this.  I just stumbled over the website, and read some great comments.  I have a problem understanding this.  If you tell someone that you are in a relationship with, that something that they are doing bother's you.  They don't attempt to fix it, and continue to ignore it.  It then esculated into a big fight, and bang the relationship ends.  How to you recover from that?after you become the blame for wanting this to end, and they vow never to call you again.