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My wife, myself and another married couple, "friends of ours" were just discussing why womens clothing always seem to be more, exciting if you will. You know, more form fitting and generally overall less boring trhan men's clothing. The female form, to all of us, seems to be a work of art when compared to men's. Women's clothing has seemingly, at least over the past fifty years or so, began to accentuate the graceful curves and enable their bodies to be comfortable, clothed.

I you go back further to the days of the shoestring lace corsetts you will even notice that this served the purpose of slimming the waist, pushing up the breasts and so on. Thereby attracting attention to the female form, allbeit an uncomfortable method of doing so for the women.

When I hear the older generation speaking of how things have gotten out of hand with modern clothing, I like to think that what we are seeing now is only a natural state of evolution. When women want a certain look, the free market will facilitate that look. Men will sometimes be a motivation and sometimes they won't. When people are comfortable with themselves, and confident it will shine through, and manifest itself into the person you view yourself as being, in your case a sensual being.

We all have the right to be appauled at whatever we deem apauling to us as individuals. Yet we all have the right to feel good about ourselves, and dress the way we want in order to facilitate that good feeling in the appropriate places.

For example, you wouldn't normally wear a bikinni to a wedding reception, but if the wedding reception was a bikinni event then you would. You would not wear a bikinni to your office job, but if you were a bikinni model then it would be your normal attire at work.

In short we wear what makes us feel good about ourselves, and we should not be required to dress a certain way simply to please people, unless it is an attempt at pleasing a significant other. Those who would seek to make us feel bad because of our preferences, have no power over us to make us feel bad unless it is given to them by the individual.

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