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Try the I-Ching for help about which job to take. The I-Ching work book by R. L. Wing(Winger) would give you a quick start and how to ask questions. There are many methods and I use the coin method. The question is important and balance/center yourself before consulting I-Ching. Check different resources on the web: Ebay, Amazon, Albris, & ect. . . ; for the best price. If you want to see the book first, then you can probably find some of it on line or see the actual book at a local library. If not at a local library, then try local book stores.

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If the I-Ching works for you, then you will get more confident about your decision making.

Build yourself up. Treat yourself as you would treat your best friend.

Tony Robbins lessons have taught me to ask myself better questions. I would recommend the same to you. For example, not so good question, "Why do I always", better question "How can I turn this around and enjoy the process".

Advanced: Check on WOFS.com; there are different topics available. Look at section on column (left side of page); click on one titled Feng Shui almanac. For the month There are different days with their hours marked as either Red, black, or white. If you keep track of when something good or not so good happens that sets a tone for the day, just observe; when it happened; if this is marked in black, then you know that this was a not so good cycle. I grew up on FL beaches and one of the most important life lessons that I learned about surfing is catching a wave. Apply this to your life, if the water is flat you can do all the right things and nothing is happening; it's not your fault, just have to do something else until the conditions are right. If this almanac works for you, then I suggest planning your exercise, and if you meditate or practice chi gong; try focusing on the best hours for your activities.

I wish you the best and hope this helps you. Take Care.