i am so confused. my sister and her husband have been together for about 7 years. married for 5. yesterday she tells me that she has been talking to this guy at her work (for about a month) and that she isn't sure if she wants to be with her husband. talk about mind blowing! i was so in shock. she says her husband is not somebody that she has ever been attracted to and that she thinks she just got caught up in the moment. she says she knows that he loves her and molly ( their little girl) but she isn't sure she is in love with him. she wants somebody to protect her/ to make her feel safe and she feels as if she is the protector.  read more »

I've been thinking lately of my best friend Kae.  Kae Brown, Kae Meadows, she lived in Detroit and she was my best friend online in 1997-98.  well, honestly my best friend anywhere in 1997-98.  And then she changed jobs and didn't have access to personal e-mail anymore, and a few months later I went offline too.  We talked a few times, as recently as 2001.  But I moved and misplaced an address book and we were lost to one another.

I'm using the Secret and I'm asking Kae to find me.

Tammi

I am looking and hoping to find a relationship that would lead to love.  I have, in the past, continued to attract and choose to get involved with people who aren't really what I'm looking for.  I.e. I have been afraid of initiating communication (let alone dating) with individuals that I'm really attracted to.  This is because of my own lack of self-esteem.  I am making progress in how I see myself, but haven't arrived at the point of believing that people I'm attracted to are actually "in my league".

Because I see a cycle here, I'm working towards changing my outlook, approach, beliefs and hopefully my karma.

Thoughts?  Help?

I have a loved one that is in an abusive relationship.  Mostly mental abuse but there definatley is physical too.  She is so terrified of her husband that she feels like she cannot do anything, even leave.  I have tried to support her, talk to her, pray for her.  I tell her she needs to leave but she says she cannot because of their son.  She is so afraid to leave because she thinks that he will come after her, so she won't.  She went to a women's shelter once but ended up leaving the next day.  Does anyone have any suggestions?

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I have a friend who is in the hospital recovering from a third suicide attempt.  How can I be most effective in helping him recover and not attempt suicide again if he does not believe in the power of your thoughts?  What can I do on my own or with him to help him recover permanently from his depression?

Thank you very much,

Lawrence